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I am on the edge of my seat, Robin! You remembered so much! Have you been able to verify some/all of Mary’s story? I love it. Thank-you. Congratulations!

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Thank you! The bones of the story come from my research which includes accounts by Richard and Mary’s children and grandchildren. The source for these accounts are from a manuscript written by Howard Hinkson Convers, my grandmother’s brother. It has been such a gift. The small details, dialogue and such are from my imagination. Thank you again!

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The small details align so beautifully to the factual accounts and really enhance the story. Amazing work, Robin!

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Thank you so much, Kirsi!

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This was a wrong I set out to right early on in my family - but it can be so hard to "un-erase" people who were left out so systematically.

If you're on Mastodon, look for "Carver Her Name," a daily post of things women did on that day in history: https://mstdn.social/@CarveHerName/110649218131659578

And I can also recommend "They Fought Like Demons" by DeAnne Blanton - about women who fought in the Civil War. https://www.google.com/books/edition/They_Fought_Like_Demons/c3yeAgAAQBAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&pg=PP1&printsec=frontcover

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Thank you for the links! They’re great! I agree. The problem is systemic. I think awareness, conversations, intentional inclusion and individual family historians making a difference will help.

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Good for you for doing this work! It's such an important corrective but you've also managed it very creatively here.

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Thank you!

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Wonderful story. Keep it up. I write only biographies of the women in my family. The men are mentioned only as needed.

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I love that about mymanymothers.com, Sindi.

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Thank you, Sindi. I’m glad to hear that it’s happening.

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Wonderful story! The insight into women's stories, and the lack thereof in academic materials, was an eye opener. The storytelling details teased from factual accounts made riveting reading. Well done!

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Thank you very much!

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A lovely story Robin, you've really brought her to life and make me want to find out more about my own great grandmothers further back...

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Oh that’s wonderful. Thank you so much!

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Great story. I'm waiting for the next piece of this adventure.

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